Here are some great inexpensive gifts for mother’s day.

-          Breakfast in Bed – is always a favorite one.  Wake up just a tad bit early on Sunday morning and make a special breakfast for mom. Serve her in bed with her favorite breakfast treats and top it off with a small vase of fresh flowers.

-          Make a homemade CD- gospel, classic, jazz, rock – whatever type of music your dear mother listens to.

-          Do extra chores – Moms love help around the house especially if you rarely offer it. Surprise her by doing something unpredictable for once.

-          Family Photo Album – It doesn’t have to be big, just be sure to include special family pictures that capture the most memorable of moments. The handwritten notes are the best part – tell her exactly how much she means to you.  

-          Memory Jar – Get a nice inexpensive jar from the dollar store and decorate it nicely. In it put nice notepaper that has the things you love about mom on them.

-          Apron – If mom’s a great cook – decorate a white apron for her with fabric paint.

-          ABC Mom – Tell her all the things that remind you of her beginning with that letter (A – always there for me, B – beautiful, C- cares about everyone, etc)

-          Small Indulgence ­– Figure out what little luxury your mother has been denying herself of and get it for her, like her favorite magazine or chocolate.

-          Take her out­ - Save up your allowance or other money and take mom out to her favorite restaurant or even in the evening for some ice cream.

-          Give her some quiet time – A day at the spa is always appreciated.

-          Personalize a Hallmark Card

-          Get her Flowers

-          Customize Bracelets

-          Chocolate, Chocolate, Chocolate

-          Recipe Book

-          Write her a poem

Though these are cheap, inexpensive ideas – they are priceless gifts that make for a memorable Mother’s Day.

Check out these sites for more idea:

http://www.betterbudgeting.com/articles/holidays/giftsformothersday.htm

http://frugalliving.about.com/od/specialoccasions/tp/Mothers_Day.htm

http://abcnews.go.com/Business/Breakfast/story?id=7500685&page=1

Thursday April 15 8:00am to 10:00am

Bring you game face!

Wednesday April 14th 8:00 to 10:00

Tuesday April 13 8:00 to 10:00

Bring hungry tummies!

Tuesday:  April 13 8:00 to 1:00

Wednesday:  April 14 8:00 to 1:00

Thursday: April 15 8:00 to 1245

April 12 for 6:00 to 8:00 Mths will be hosting open house

Campus closed March 29 through April 2 for spring break

There is this one person that I really like. We’ve known each other for over a year now and I think that we’ve gotten to be really close friends. I don’t know if I’ve been taking anything the wrong way but I feel like I’m always being flirted with. I read your article on how to flirt and it seems like my friend is doing all those things. All of my friends say that it is flirting but I just don’t know what to say and what to do. I can’t really tell for sure but I really don’t want to come out and say it because my friend is in a relationship so I can’t come out and ask, “do you like me?”. So my question to you Venus and Mars is what does my friend feel? I know you guys can’t read minds, especially of someone you don’t really know but clues or something, ‘cause I think I’m falling for my friend, and I’d hate to be falling for someone who has no feelings for me.

Signed,

Flirty, Falling, and Confused

Dear Flirty, Falling and Confused

This is not an easy question to answer at all. I had to consult a lot of girls on the question, and I’ve come to a conclusion that you’re probably not going to like. As you know, it would be quite screwed up of you to get involved with anyone in a relationship. Next, you have to take into consideration how the other person you like feels. If he or she is genuinely happy with their significant other, why ruin or come in the way of what they have? It’s tough on you, but to do otherwise would be selfish of you and acting only on your emotions. Something else to take into account, that not many people realize is that people who are taken tend to flirt – a lot – perhaps more so then those who are single. This is because they are comfortable and confident in their relationship.  It’s something I’ve learned the hard way. So honestly, in this situation its best to hang back, if they want something more than friendship then it’s up to him/her to initiate it.  The only thing in my opinion that warrants you confronting your crush is if you feel like you absolutely have to tell this person how you feel, as in you feel like you’d die if you didn’t. That is the only case where I’d say go for it.  However, if he/she ever breaks up with their significant other, everything is fair game.

-Mars

Dear Flirty, Falling and Confused

You’re stuck between a rock and a very, very, very hard place. On one hand you are really into a taken friend and want to know whether the feeling is reciprocated. While on the other, you don’t want to ruin the friendship by admitting your feelings. I understand, it’s a big dilemma, but with a dilemma like this it all comes down to one HUGE question, what do you value more; your crush’s friendship or their affection? If your answer is their friendship, put your crush aside and allow your friend to be happy in the relationship they are in. However, Flirty and Falling, if it’s your friend’s affection you crave, take a leap of faith and go for it. Take the risk, the saying is true: the bigger the risk the better the reward.  It could turn out that your friend is just as interested in you as you are in him/her. Although beware, the situation can get very messy and you may not get the response you’re hoping for. If that happens, look on the bright side, at least the heavy burden of “what if” will be lifted from your shoulders and the constant wondering will end.

-Venus

 Dear Contact Contemplator,

It sounds like you have already answered your own question. Your gut is telling you to get contacts because you think you would look better. Follow that instinct and you can’t go wrong. There should be no reason for you to feel bad about what you want for yourself. While most people find contacts much easier than glasses, there is no harm in just testing them out.  If you don’t like them, you can always switch back. There is also the option of switching back and forth between glasses and contacts that can give you a more versatile look. It all comes down to what you feel most comfortable with, whether it’s contacts or glasses. 

-Venus

Dear Contact Contemplator,

I’d say it all depends on how you view glasses. Glasses today come in all sorts of fashions so that you can look your best wearing them. Trying a new style might suffice for you. If it doesn’t, then I would say that making the switch to contacts would be fine. There is no harm in making a change if it makes you feel better about yourself.  With contacts you do have to worry about the upkeep: washing, replacing keeping them clean and safe. This can be a hassle, but I’d say that if you’re willing and responsible enough to put up with that, then making the switch would be a good move.  I would definitely give it a shot; it’s not a permanent switch and if you’re dissatisfied, your glasses will still be there.

 -          Mars

Email Venus and Mars at vfttadvice@gmail.com  with your own questions

All right, so according to the polls, people want to know how to flirt.  This is for the gents who have a hard time with flirting. I’ve talked to numerous girls on the matter, and this is the general conclusion:

Unanimously they all said, “Smell nice and have good hygiene.”  But, don’t smell overbearing. You don’t want to give the girl a migraine.

Now a lot of guys are actually pretty decent flirts, but they struggle with first encounters and introductions.  A good way to start talking to someone is by getting a friend to introduce you. It breaks the awkward tension and opens the door to more encounters.

Next, smiling is important. If you’re talking to her, be happy – it lets them know that they have the ability to make you happy. Also, happiness is contagious, so… SMILE AND MAKE HER SMILE!

All right, next girls said that it’s important to be confident. Know what you’re doing.  Show them that you have some direction and that you are able to be self-sufficient. It also shows that you have a free mind and that you’re independent.  It’s definitely a turn on in moderation.  Girls don’t want cocky or arrogant.

Next: be charming, sweet, funny, chivalrous, and a little witty … of course all these should used in moderation.

What Not To Do

• Don’t joke around all the time.
• Don’t be too “touchy”
• Watch your sarcasm, and don’t treat her like one of the guys.
• NO ONE LINERS. Pick up lines don’t work at all .

-Mars

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Flirting–we all do it, and ladies let’s be honest when it comes to flirting we have it a bit easier than the guys. It’s a bit easier for us to laugh at his silly jokes or smile sweetly at him. But we aren’t complete naturals; here are a few tips to ensure that you catch that one particular cutie’s attention:

To begin, approach with confidence; being nervous never helps.  Boys like it when a girl is sure of herself. Being able to approach a boy with confidence sends him the vibes that not only are you sure of yourself, but that you’re interested in him.

Next, try to spark a conversation. Try opening the conversation with a compliment. Talk about things that you’re interested in and keep the lines of communication flowing as much as possible. Be at ease while you’re talking to that special crush; try not to let the jitter bugs or nerves overcome you when you’re flirting.  

It doesn’t have to be this grand gesture to get that special guy to notice. Above all, the BEST thing to do, ladies, is to put on a smile. I consulted a few guys and they all agreed that any girl with a scowl on her face posed an immediate warning signal in their minds. A smile breaks the initial awkwardness and is a warm gesture that shows friendliness.

 What Not To Do

• Do not be to snobby
• Don’t seem unapproachable
• DON’T HAVE A BAD ATTITUDE

It doesn’t have to be this grand gesture to get that special guy to notice you: a warm friendly attitude coupled with confidence and starting a casual conversation about mutual interests is good enough. And as a last ditch effort, maybe try that old school hair flipping thing with the batting of your eyes lashes–you know, just for good measure.

 -Venus